the Love You
always wanted
You know the feeling… a wild, boundless love that inspires you to poetry and joy. It’s the kind of love that wins Oscars, that your great grandchildren will tell stories of. This is not a fable: this is your opportunity.
In 3 months and 21 dates, you will rekindle the fire that has laid dormant in both your hearts. You will learn to communicate with compassion, turn challenges into celebrations, and make love like movie stars. Your grand love story awaits: seize it, today.
What You’ll Learn
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EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION
Develop clear, empathetic, and constructive dialogue skills.
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CONFLICT RESOLUTION
Resolve conflicts in a nurturing manner.
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INTIMACY BUILDING
Deepen physical, emotional, and spiritual intimacy.
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FORGIVENESS PRACTICES
Forgive and let go of past grievances.
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EMOTIONAL ATTUNEMENT
Understand and respond to your own and your partner's emotions.
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EXPRESSING NEEDS CLEARLY
Articulate personal needs and desires in a relationship.
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BOUNDARY SETTING
Establish and respect personal and relational boundaries.
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TANTRIC TECHNIQUES
Explore ancient Tantra for deeper sexual and spiritual connection.
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PLAYFULNESS AND JOY
Incorporate elements of play and joy into the relationship.
The Best Week Ever…
Every week
You will nurture your personal growth and strengthen your relationship every week through transformative practices and meaningful connections.
Here's what you'll be engaging in every week:
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Delve into the heart of the program with video and audio lessons. Each lesson is crafted to align with the weekly theme, offering valuable insights and practical strategies.
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Dedicate time for yourself with self-date activities. These personal growth practices, such as guided meditations or creative exercises, are designed to foster self-reflection and inner healing.
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Engage in a meaningful date with your partner each week. These dates are an opportunity to practice the learnings from the weekly lessons, strengthening your bond and enhancing your connection.
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Join the weekly group coaching call, a mastermind session where you can share your experiences, gain insights, and receive support from a community of like-minded individuals.
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Participate in the vibrant Love Hub community. Share your journey, challenges, and triumphs, and benefit from the collective wisdom and support of the group.
The Perfect Dates
Each week for 3 months, you'll enjoy two distinct dates: a self-date for personal reflection and a couple's date to strengthen your bond. This balanced approach ensures both individual growth and relationship enhancement.
Date Yourself
Every week, you will go on a date with the person who knows you best: yourself. These will be opportunities for you to nurture and reflect.
On Self Dates, engage in guided exercises designed for self-soothing and introspection. Think of these as special moments to recharge and connect with your inner self, laying the groundwork for deeper external connections.
Post-reflection, engage with your AI love coach, transforming your reflections into tailored advice that you can bring into your partnership with love and connection.
Date Each other
Every week, alongside your personal journey, you and your partner will venture together on Couple Dates. These dates are more than shared moments; they're chances to put into practice the week's lessons and insights.
During Couple Dates, you'll engage in meaningful activities and conversations, applying what you've learned. You will voice record these dates using AI tools, and then receive customized feedback and insights from your AI love coach. It's a dynamic way to strengthen your bond, enhancing communication and deepening your connection.
Discover the
Best Sex of
Your Life
Ravage each other like teenagers but with the skill of tantric masters. I will guide you to uncharted realms of pleasure and connection as you unravel the emotional blockages that have kept your hearts closed.
Together, we'll explore the art of intimacy, unlocking secrets to a fulfilling sexual experience that transcends the ordinary, elevating your moments of closeness into a celebration of each other's being.
A Month to Remember…
Every Month
Each month in '21 Dates with Chuchu' brings its own set of enriching experiences, deepening the journey you've embarked on.
Here’s what makes every month memorable:
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Once a month, join a unique group date, bringing together all participants. It's a chance to reflect on the month's experiences, share stories, and celebrate progress with the community.
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Share your challenges and triumphs during the monthly sessions. This fosters a supportive environment where you can learn from and encourage each other, turning obstacles into opportunities for growth.
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End each month by setting intentions for the next. This helps keep your journey focused and aligned with your relationship goals, ensuring each month builds on the last for continued growth and deeper connection.
Celebrated Modalities
Harness a variety of transformative therapeutic modalities, each offering unique benefits to foster self-awareness and enrich your relationships. Discover how each modality can empower your journey:
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Internal Family Systems revolutionizes understanding of the self through 'parts work.' This approach, recognized for its effectiveness in psychotherapy, allows individuals to identify and interact with various internal 'parts,' fostering a deeper understanding of their psychological landscape. By doing so, IFS helps improve individual well-being and relationship dynamics, as it encourages introspection and emotional healing.
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT):
Emotionally Focused Therapy is a leading method in couples counseling, with studies showing up to 75% of couples move from distress to recovery. EFT helps couples break negative emotional cycles and build secure bonds, focusing on creating and strengthening emotional connections. This approach is pivotal in transforming relationships into a source of strength and mutual support.
Somatic Experiencing
Somatic Experiencing provides a pathway to healing by focusing on the body's sensations, rather than getting entangled in the stories of the mind. This therapeutic approach is effective in resolving trauma and stress, as it teaches individuals to notice and respond to their body's cues. By promoting awareness and presence in the body, it enhances emotional regulation and fosters a deeper connection with oneself and one's partner.
Program Outline
Foundations
Begin your journey by establishing a strong foundation for your relationship. Delve into commitments, goals, and value definitions, bolstered by practical exercises like creating shared photo albums and reflecting on cherished memories.
Internal Dynamics
Delve into the fascinating world of parts work and attachment styles. Uncover how different aspects of your personality interact within your relationship and how your past experiences shape your current dynamics, paving the way for a deeper understanding of each other.
Healthy Communication
Learn the art of healthy communication combined with nurturing intimacy practices. Enhance your dialogues with clarity and empathy, while exploring nurturing activities like shared baths or massages to deepen your emotional connection.
Fulfilling Emotional Needs
Deepen your bond by understanding and fulfilling each other's emotional and non-sexual needs. Engage in activities and discussions to express and meet these needs, reinforcing empathy and strengthening your connection.
Deepening Pleasure
Embark on a journey to enrich your sexual and intimate life. Explore the principles of Tantra and other techniques to enhance sexual communication and connection, bringing a new depth of pleasure and intimacy to your relationship.
Co-creating Abundance
Conclude your journey by envisioning and planning an abundant future together. Set mutual goals and support each other in achieving them, employing strategies for creating a shared vision of prosperity and fulfillment in your life together.
Books
Each module is complemented by celebrated books that you will share together, providing deeper insights and practical knowledge to enhance your relationship journey.